The term frigidity is often used inaccurate and pejorative way to refer to all forms of inhibition of female sexual response from the lack of arousal response to different levels of orgasmic inhibition.

It is therefore a confusing term that is necessary to define both the type of response (as we have said is distinct lack of arousal problems of lack of orgasm) and at the same level as it can be absolute, situational or random, and in turn primary or secondary, as in the etiology of it.

The lack of sexual desire can occur in both men and women. As explained below, there are job stress, depression and different types of conflict that negatively affect sexual interest to both genders.

In some cases where there is a lack of desire on the wife, but not the husband, recent studies indicate that some women put sex, nothing exciting for them, so your husband can ejaculate quickly and complete intercourse . But part of this event and witness satisfaction and the pleasure he receives while she is limited to providing her body, can be very frustrating and discouraging for women. To counter such feelings he sometimes pressured to become excited, and just this further inhibits sexual response from her. As is obvious this is not the best course of action, not by her or by him, but what’s best for both sex therapy is to guide them to solve this problem and enjoy your relationships as a couple.

Why lack sexual desire?

There are both biological and psychological determinants of this sexual dysfunction, see:

Biological Determinants

According to H. Singer (1978) the effects of diseases such as chronic stress, depression, frustration and conflict can produce significant endocrine changes capable of reducing the level of androgens. It is logical that a person who fears losing his job, or feel trapped and depressed, there may be a decreased level of androgens, and therefore sex is the last thing that comes to mind.

There are other biological factors that negatively influence: are some medications and drugs, since they involve a chemical alteration of the nerves that regulate sexual response and act primarily on the brain.

Arnold Kegel believes that the lack of use, weakness, low tone or fibrosis of the muscles surrounding the vagina contribute to generating an inability to orgasm. We agree with him, and in fact, therapy is recommended Kegel exercises.

Psychological Determinants

There are some causes of sexual dysfunction due to a very repressive education, which generally occurs in women, in which case she does not dare to apply the stimulation she needs, often because they are not even aware of their own needs.

Other times may be due to ignorance on the part of the sexual partner. It may be that the husband is not very sensitive to the needs of his wife, thinking only of their own desires and erroneously believing that the lack of desire for it is the sole responsibility of his wife. In these cases the man does not know what he can contribute to facilitate the relationship. In couples therapy you can discover the shortcomings of each and redress the situation.

Sexual Therapy

In each case it is necessary to analyze conflicts are therapy, the type of relationship which can be dyadic causes of sexual dysfunction, and sexual dysfunction causes learned.

The sexual expression is subjected to different influences, such as memories, experiences, emotions, thoughts and associations. These influences can both harm if the experiences and emotions experienced were negative as favoring increasing sexual desire if they are positive, for example when you have been helped by the love and fantasy.

However, do not be alarmed, as this situation is not permanent, through scientific psychological therapy and well planned to suit the situation and individual problems of each person can solve the problem.

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